More suggestions. They work for me. If you find yourself to be crying/brooding/despairing, distract yourself by reading a book or playing a fast-paced game. Do it for like, an hour.
Cook healthy meals, keep your place clean, do everything that society tells you that you should do to be a good person. Even if you think it's bullshit, do it. It makes you feel productive and good and worthy.
Please, actively give these sort of ideas a go for a few days. You may be able to become compatible as a couple; you may not. But in the meantime, you're not in a good place and you need to take some positive, distracting action.
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Date: 2010-07-22 12:05 pm (UTC)Cook healthy meals, keep your place clean, do everything that society tells you that you should do to be a good person. Even if you think it's bullshit, do it. It makes you feel productive and good and worthy.
Please, actively give these sort of ideas a go for a few days. You may be able to become compatible as a couple; you may not. But in the meantime, you're not in a good place and you need to take some positive, distracting action.