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friezaess ([personal profile] friezaess) wrote2009-08-05 07:27 pm
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Go away.

I wish Dad knew how miserable he makes me. I was stupid to ask him to move in. He said I could ask him to leave at any time, but I'm not that big enough of a douche. Even when I'm happy, all it takes is a few words (or lack thereof) from him to make me sad. I love him, but I don't like him. I was particularly depressed about Uni the other day. When I attempted to vent, he got up and walked out of the room. I wish he'd go live somewhere else.

Bad home situation + Uni woes x continually reinforced feelings of worthlessness and hopelessness = 15 hours straight on /b/.

I don't fucking know why I get up in the morning anymore.

[identity profile] damasquerade.livejournal.com 2009-08-05 09:46 am (UTC)(link)
Tell him next time he does this about how his actions can devastate you, his daughter.

>:/

[identity profile] friezaess.livejournal.com 2009-08-05 09:54 am (UTC)(link)
I've tried. It's like talking to a brick wall. He just grunts then talks for half an hour about, say, a cat he saw on the way home.

[identity profile] damasquerade.livejournal.com 2009-08-05 10:46 am (UTC)(link)
What I want you to say is tell him, "If things don't improve, I'll have to ask you to move out for my own sake," but I understand how hard that is to say to a family member, especially when he's all you've got left, pretty much :/ But the question you should ask yourself is, would you be happier with him in your daily life, or without him but visiting often?

Or, you can ignore me because I'm drinking :D Shit sucks, I know. *hug*

[identity profile] bakames.livejournal.com 2009-08-05 10:14 am (UTC)(link)
Where did he come from when he moved in with you? Ask him nicely if he could 'work on finding somewhere to go' so that you can 'renovate' the house or some shiz.
You'd think he'd leave if you have enough loud sex in the house.
But you'll need him to look after your dogs next year too

[identity profile] bakames.livejournal.com 2009-08-05 10:15 am (UTC)(link)
btw I saw your dad yesterday infront of me in the supermarket queue. true story...

[identity profile] friezaess.livejournal.com 2009-08-07 01:00 am (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry you had to go through that ;_;

[identity profile] bakames.livejournal.com 2009-08-07 05:04 am (UTC)(link)
He had 15 items in the 15 items or less isle, it was a close call.
You should make him feel bad that you have to clean up after him and get him to pay for a professional spring clean

[identity profile] faith-chann.livejournal.com 2009-08-05 11:25 am (UTC)(link)
Basically what damasquerade said.
You need to find a nice way to ask him because obviously it is really affecting your day to day life. I'm sure visiting him frequently would be a much better solution.

Or as Kylie said. Just start having super loud sex till he leaves. :D

[identity profile] friezaess.livejournal.com 2009-08-07 01:00 am (UTC)(link)
Maybe I should just combine that advice and ask him to leave so I can have loud sex.