For most part, the only suggestion I have at this point is... well, maybe it's just natural. I can't comment much more - I guess I'm in a similar situation. The difference is I guess the fact that there may be something out there that'll grab you, or there might not be.

But all in all, if there's no enjoyment in it, and there's no actual need to, why pretend to participate? It's not like anime is something that has to be practiced...